You're new to RVing, right? If so, how could you know right from wrong?
I'm talking about the 'tips' you see online about what you should/shouldn't do when RVing.
You follow the tips blindly because, well, you're a beginner, and you're new to the game.
No shame there, I totally get it. In fact, that's why this post exists. So you can learn these lies and misconceptions before you make these beginner mistakes.
Still, it's not as if these mistakes are DEVASTATING if you make them. But one of them COULD be deadly if you made the beginner mistake.
I expect to have some nay-sayers about some of these misconceptions in the comments.
It's human nature. But hear me out with these. Hopefully, you'll see the logic.
1. "You Need To Bring Protection With You When Camping"
It seems this one will never go away. It's the notion that you need 'protection' from people when camping.
After almost six years of full-time RVing, I say no, you don't need protection.
But if you're new to RVing, it's understandable to wonder, especially if you're going to be RVing alone.
After years of experience, I JUST don't see it! I've been there, done it, and at least out West, it's very, very safe to camp all alone. (In the right places, of course.)
Seriously, I JUST had someone troll me on my reply to this very question in 'Girl Camper' on Facebook.
The very common question is generally this:
I mean, how many times in your adult life have you had to physically defend yourself, with a weapon, from a 'bad human'?
Anyway, I replied with my usual 'if you don't feel the need to carry protection in your daily life, you aren't likely to feel the need to while camping.'
Here's my reply and their reply.
It's a non-stop debate that I am passionate about. We shouldn't be living in fear, folks:
This sort of question gets asked ALL the time. If you have spent any time in RVing forums or in RV Facebook groups, you've no doubt seen someone ask it.
Many people reply with all the things one should do and carry on their person to 'stay protected'.
Sure, a few reply saying camping typically is safer than being in a town or city.
But it seems the majority that reply are the ones that loooooove to talk about their protection and how you 'need' it.
The Real Truth About Self-Protection
Folks, if you can't wrap your head around it or are still scared, think of it this way.
Do you don't feel the need for any type of weapon on your person in your average day out in public (OR at your home, for that matter)? No? Then you shouldn't feel the need to carry a weapon when camping.
Here's another take on it. Do you carry a weapon when you go on a road trip to another town? No?
Camping is no different. NOTHING has changed. You're in public. If you DO feel the need to have protection, you are camping in a bad area.
Hey, how about DON'T DO THAT! YOU NEED TO USE YOUR COMMON SENSE.
When a place feels shady, don't stay there.
If you choose to or must camp in shady areas, then yeah, you might think about having some protection on your person.
Or if you just prefer to have something on yourself all of the time, also fine.
That is all.
2. "Don't Travel With Your Water Tank Full"
Hey RV beginner, guess what? The truth is that it's totally fine to travel with a full tank.
But only on this one condition: As long as it doesn't put you over your Gross Vehicle Weight Rating (GVWR).
Every RV has a GVWR. This is the most your RV can weigh fully loaded. Know your GVWR, and mind it!
To figure it out, you should weigh your RV AFTER it's full. We're talking it should be loaded for camping, propane full, and people on board if a motorhome. (How to weigh a travel trailer.)
If you're SO close to (or over) your GVWR that you can't travel with your freshwater full, YOU'RE TOO HEAVY.
Don't push this one. It's too dangerous. Your RV is made to travel with the freshwater tank full. How else are you supposed to dry camp?
It's ok for you to fill your water and travel as long as it doesn't:
- Put you near your GVWR
- Put you over your GVWR
3. "You Need Camping Memberships"
I got Passport America and Escapees when I was a beginner before I even hit the road. Escapees worked for me anyway for my mail forwarding and domicile address, so that was fine.
However, I don't recall ever using my Passport America. It turned out I was a hardcore boondocker!
My advice to you is NOT to run out and get any camping memberships that offer campsite discounts right away. That is unless you are 100% sure you will camp in a certain way.
I started with a Good Sam membership as well. I didn't need it, either. The way I camp, well, I just don't use any of the Good Sam benefits.
Just trying to help you not waste any of your hard-earned money here since you are new to RVing.
4. "Xscapers Is A Cult/They Are Hardcore Drinkers/Partiers"
Ok. I have heard this one a lot. Maybe you haven't. But the cult part is just silly.
Just because some of the first few years of Xscapers members were TREMENDOUSLY excited to have a way to meet other active around-their-age full-time RVers (and have formed life-long bonds with each other) does not mean they created a cult.
How do I know? Because Marshall and I are two of the original Xscapers members.
The Real Truth About Xscapers
There are some tight bonds out there. And there are even club members with Xscapers tattoos. (To get awarded a free lifetime Escapees membership.) But that's as far as the cult story goes.
As far as being crazy partiers- this is also not true. But many of us LOVE to party at a convergence, heck yes!
But outside of a convergence, in regular daily lives, most of us just live fairly simple, traditional lives.
You won't see that if you have only been to convergences and have not befriended anyone to hang with afterwards.
I mean, sure, there MAY be some people in the group that do nothing but party, but the people that I have met live pretty normal lives and do not live like teenagers in a college dorm 24/7.
There are almost 20,000 Xscapers members now. Naturally, there are bound to be many different types of people in it. Personally, there's no way I could party all the time. I don't have that kind of energy!
So, if you are an active RVer, especially of working age, Xscapers convergences are an excellent way to make new lifelong RVing friends.
Friends that are not cultists or alcoholics!
5. "When Boondocking, There Are No Rules"
Au contraire, mon frère!
When others don't follow the rules, they can even ruin your camping experience.
Here are a few examples of rules:
- First, you cannot just park anywhere that is public land. It has to be an actual camping spot already.
- There has to be significant proof of people having camped there before you, meaning a defined area where other vehicles have been and maybe a campfire ring.
- You cannot just throw your trash out.
- There WILL be a stay limit (Normally two weeks or less).
- You should be considerate of others.
- Keep your dogs under control at all times.
- Don't use a contractor generator.
This isn't all of it. Educate yourself before you go so you don't become 'that jerk.'
Escapees RV club has a boondocker policy that you can use as a starting point. Educate yourself on what is allowed and what is not allowed on public lands when camping.
Being a new to RVing beginner is no excuse to abuse public lands and its beneficial rules.
6. "You Need To Use A Black Tank Treatment"
When I was new to RVing, I thought it was 100% needed to break down the solids. (Wrong)
Well, if you thought it was to break things down, so all 'flows' well, well, there's a much easier and cheaper solution for that. Simply don't flush your toilet paper down the toilet!
The Real Truth About Using A Treatment
Ok, so the 'RV holding tank odor control' aspect of a black tank treatment is legit. However, if you already have your RV, have you tried NOT using it?
If it's not blazing hot outside, chances are you won't even need to use a treatment. I haven't used any treatment for... well, for about 4.5 years straight when I was full-time RVing.
I stopped using it and had no problems... UNTIL I went to help my mom in Florida. And the heat... yes, if you are RVing where it gets scorching, you will likely struggle with odors without a treatment.
THEN you should probably just consistently use something down your toilet. Happy Campers holding tank treatment is an excellent product for this.
7. "It's OK To Travel With Your Propane On"
Just, why even risk this? (KABOOM!)
If you're new to RVing, you may be thinking you need to leave your propane on so that your refrigerator stays cold. Well, I have news for you.
Your refrigerator will stay pretty cold even when it's not on for a few hours. Most of you don't drive over five or so hours, and in that time, your stuff should be fine.
If you're worried about it, you can put some frozen jugs of water or Ziploc bags of ice in there to help keep things cool.
We have no friends yet who have had an accident and had their tanks blow up. Yet. But it has happened.
It should be obvious that propane is EXTREMELY flammable. It burns easily. And accidents produce sparks. One of your lines breaks and gets sparked, and you've got an explosion.
It's simply safer to travel with them closed.
Full Disclosure: Marshall travels with his open (one tank only). Which I am pretty surprised to find out. I do not.
'Can't wait' to read the comments about this one.
There is so much to learn when you're starting off as an RV beginner. Heck, I'm about 6 years in and even I am still learning.
You just made yourself a little wiser as you won't be falling for these common lies and misconceptions.
You're researching, so you're on the right track.
EVERYONE used to be in the same 'new to RVing' boat as you. There was a time for any RVer when they didn't know a thing about it, except it looked glamorous on Instagram. My first time out I messed up time after time.
You're going to have things to learn, figure out, and iron out. Now at least you know some of the lies, misconceptions, and fallacies.
Enjoy the journey!
Author: Kelly Beasley
As a seasoned and passionate RVing expert, I have dedicated myself to living the full-time RV life for over 5.5 years, immersing myself in the unique quirks and joys of the boondocking lifestyle and gaining a wealth of knowledge and experience along the way. In December 2020, my business partner and I made the transition to part-time RVing, but in January 2023, we hit the road once again, this time in our trusty vans. My mission is to help others embrace the RVing lifestyle with confidence and excitement, armed with the knowledge and resources needed to make the most of their adventures. I believe that the more you know, the more you can truly appreciate and enjoy the freedom and flexibility of the open road. Join me on this journey and let's make some unforgettable memories.