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New To RVing? Please Don’t Fall For These 7 Stupid Lies/Misconceptions

PublishedMarch 22, 2021

You're new to RVing, so how could you know right from wrong?

I'm talking about the 'tips' you see online about what you should/shouldn't do when RVing.

You follow them blindly because, well, you're a beginner and you're new to the game.

Kelly slapping her forehead


I get it. That's why this post exists. So you can learn these lies and misconceptions before you make these beginner mistakes.

Still, it's not as if these mistakes are DEVASTATING if you make them. But one of them COULD be deadly if you made the beginner mistake.

I expect to have some nay-sayers about some of these misconceptions in the comments.

It's human nature. But hear me out with these. Hopefully, you'll see the logic.

1. "You Need To Bring Protection With You When Camping"

It seems this one will never go away. It's the notion that you need 'protection' from people when camping.

After almost 6 years of full-time RVing, I say no, you don't need protection.

But if you're new to RVing, it's understandable to wonder. Especially if you're going to be RVing alone.

After years of experience, I JUST don't see it! I've been there, done it, and at least out West, it's very very safe to camp all alone. (In the right places, of course.)

Seriously, I JUST had someone troll me on my reply to this very question in 'Girl Camper' on Facebook.

The very common question is generally this:

FB personal protection question

I mean, how many times in your adult life have you had to physically defend yourself, with a weapon, from a 'bad human'?

Anyway, I replied with my usual 'if you don't feel the need to carry protection in your daily life, you aren't likely to feel the need to while camping'.

Here's my reply and their reply.

It's a non-stop debate that I am passionate about. We shouldn't be living in fear, folks:

FB personal protection answer

This sort of question gets asked ALL the time. If you have spent any time in RVing forums or in RV Facebook groups, you've no doubt seen someone ask it.

Many, many people reply with all the things one should do and carry on their person to 'stay protected'.

Sure, there are a few who reply saying camping typically is safer than being in a town or city.

But it seems the majority that actually reply are the ones that loooooove to talk about their protection and how you 'need' it.

The Real Truth About Self-Protection

Folks, if you can't wrap your head around it or are still scared, think of it this way.

If you don't feel the need for any type of weapon on your person in your average day out in public (OR at your home, for that matter), then you likely won't feel the need to carry a weapon when camping.

Do you carry a weapon when you go on a road trip to another town? No?

Kelly target shooting

AT FIRST I thought I might need protection when RVing. I got a gun. Now it feels like the most ridiculous thing. Even as a solo female RVer, I always feel safer while camping than I do anywhere else.

Camping is no different. NOTHING has changed. You're in public. If you DO feel the need to have protection, you are camping in a bad area.


When a place feels shady, don't stay there.

If you choose to or must camp in shady areas, then yeah, you might think about having some sort of protection on your person.

Or if you just prefer to have something on yourself all of the time, also fine.

That is all.

2. "Don't Travel With Your Water Tank Full"

Hey RV beginner, guess what? The truth is that it's totally fine to travel with your water full.

But only on this one condition: As long as it doesn't put you over your Gross Vehicle Weight Rating (GVWR).

Schyler's dog Scout hanging out RV window

You and your pup are going to need water when you get to your dry camping spot!

Every RV has a GVWR. This is the most your RV can weigh fully loaded. Know your GVWR, and mind it!

To figure it out, you should weigh your RV AFTER it's full. We're talking it should be loaded for camping, propane full, and people on board if a motorhome.

If you're SO close to (or over) your GVWR that you can't travel with your fresh water full, YOU'RE TOO HEAVY.

Don't push this one. It's too dangerous. Your RV is made to be able to travel with the fresh water full. How else are you supposed to dry camp?

It's ok for you to fill your water and travel as long as it doesn't:

  • Put you near your GVWR
  • Put you over your GVWR

3. "You Need Camping Memberships"

I got Passport America and Escapees when I was a beginner, before I even hit the road. Escapees worked for me anyway for my mail forwarding and domicile address, so that was fine.

However, I don't recall ever using my Passport America. Turned out I was a hardcore boondocker!

Illustrated map of 50 states

Where to first??

My advice to you is NOT to run out and get any camping memberships right away. That is, unless you are 100% sure you will camp in a certain way.

I started off with a Good Sam membership as well. Didn't need it, either. The way I camp, well, I just don't use any of the Good Sam benefits.

Just trying to help you not waste any of your hard-earned money here since you are new to RVing. 

4. "Xscapers Is A Cult/They Are Hardcore Drinkers/Partiers"

Ok. I have heard this one a lot. Maybe you haven't. But the cult part is just silly.

Just because some of the first few years of Xscapers members were TREMENDOUSLY excited to have a way to meet other active around-their-age full-time RVers (and have formed life-long bonds with each other) does not mean they have formed a cult.

How do I know? Because Marshall and I are two of the original Xscapers members.

The Real Truth About Xscapers

There are some tight bonds out there. And there are even club members with Xscapers tattoos. (To get awarded a free lifetime Escapees membership.) But that's as far as it being a cult goes.

As far as being crazy partiers- this is also not true. But many of us LOVE to party at a convergence, heck yes!

Kelly and Xscaper friends at Neon Night Annual Bash

If you ask me, THIS is what the best Xscapers convergences look like! Friends, fun, and parties!

But outside of a convergence, in daily normal lives, most of us just live fairly simple, normal daily lives.

You won't see that if you have only been to convergences and have not befriended anyone to hang with afterwards.

I mean, sure, there MAY be some people in the group that do nothing but party, but the people that I have met live pretty normal lives and simply do not live like teenagers in a college dorm 24/7.

There are almost 20,000 Xscapers members now. Naturally, there are bound to be many different types of people in it. Personally, there's no way I could party all the time. I don't have that kind of energy!

So, if you are an active RVer, especially of working age, Xscapers convergences are an excellent way to make new lifelong RVing friends.

Friends that are not cultists or alcoholics!

5. "When Boondocking, There Are No Rules"

Au contraire, mon frère!

There are rules, even 'unspoken' boondocking camping rules, that apply when you are camping on public land.

When others don't follow the rules, they can even ruin your camping experience.

Here are a few examples of rules:

  • First, you cannot just park anywhere that is public land. It has to already be an actual camping spot.
  • There has to be significant proof of people having camped there before you, meaning a defined area where other vehicles have been and maybe a campfire ring. 
Two dogs lying in front of travel trailer at Twin Lakes, Colorado

How could any human leave trash here or in any of our public lands???

  • You cannot just throw your trash out.
  • There WILL be a stay limit (Normally two weeks or less).
  • You should be considerate of others.
  • Keep your dogs under control at all times.
  • Don't use a contractor generator.

This isn't all of it. Educate yourself before you go so you don't become 'that jerk'.

Escapees RV club has a boondocker policy that you can use as a starting point. Educate yourself on what is allowed and what is not allowed on public lands when camping.

Being a new to RVing beginner is no excuse to abuse public lands and its beneficial rules.

6. "You Need To Use A Black Tank Treatment"

What is the purpose of this treatment? Is it to break down the solids? Is it to break down the toilet paper? To clean the tank? Eliminate smells?

When I was new to RVing I thought it was 100% needed to break down the solids. (Wrong)

Well, if you thought it was to break things down, so all 'flows' well, well, there's a much easier and cheaper solution for that. Simply don't flush your toilet paper down the toilet!

The Real Truth About Using A Treatment

Ok, so the 'eliminating odors' aspect of a black tank treatment is legit. However, if you already have your RV, have you tried NOT using it?

If it's not blazing hot outside, chances are you won't even need to use a treatment. I haven't used a treatment for... well for about 4.5 years straight when I was full-time RVing.

Happy Camper toilet treatment

I stopped using it and had no problems... UNTIL I went to help my mom in Florida. And the heat... yes, if you are RVing where it gets really hot, you will likely struggle with odors without a treatment.
THEN you should probably just consistently use something down your toilet. Happy Camper Holding Treatment is a great product for this.

7. "It's OK To Travel With Your Propane On"

Just, why even risk this? (KABOOM!)

If you're new to RVing, you may be thinking you need to leave your propane on so that your refrigerator stays cold. Well, I have news for you.

Your refrigerator will stay pretty cold even when it's not on. For a few hours. Most of you don't drive over 5 or so hours and in that time, your stuff should be fine.

If you're worried about it, you can put some frozen jugs of water or ziplock bags of ice in there to help keep things cool.

We have no friends yet who have had an accident and had their tanks blow up. Yet. But it has happened.

Kelly trailer's propane tanks

Propane is EXTREMELY flammable. Accidents produce sparks. One of your lines breaks and gets sparked and you're going to have an explosion.

It's simply safer to travel with them closed.

Full disclosure- Marshall travels with his open (one tank only). Which I am pretty surprised to find out. I do not.

'Can't wait' to read the comments about this one.


There is so much to learn when you're starting off as an RV beginner. Heck, I'm about 6 years in and I am still learning.

Kelly sitting in her trailer door before launching from Florida

Me as a beginner! Hadn't even fledged out of my driveway yet. Can you find the one mistake I'd (kind of) already made?

You just gave yourself a little smarter as you won't be falling for these common lies and misconceptions.

You're researching, so you're on the right track.

EVERYONE used to be in the same 'new to RVing' boat as you. There was a time for any RVer when they didn't know a thing about it except it looked really glamorous on Instagram. My first time out I messed up time after time.

You're going to have things to learn, figure out, and iron out. Now at least you know some of the lies, misconceptions, and fallacies.

Enjoy the journey!

Kelly Headshot

He-llllo. I'm the co-founder of Camp Addict, which my biz partner and I launched in 2017. I frigging love the RVing lifestyle but in December of 2020, I converted to part-time RV life. Heck, I lived in my travel trailer for over 5.5 years, STRICTLY boondocking for pretty much all of it. Boondocking is a GREAT way to live, but it's not easy. Anyway, I'm passionate about animals, can't stand campgrounds, I hardly ever cook, and I love a good dance party. Currently, I can be found plotting and scheming whether or not to start collecting farm animals (or plotting my next RV trip!) at my beautiful new 'ranch' named 'Hotel Kellyfornia', in Southern Arizona. 

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    • AAAACK! And I even looked it up!!! Now I wonder if I got auto corrected and didn’t notice. Wishful thinking is more likely lol. Thank you for the correction. I can’t stand to have grammar mistakes though I likely have more than I realize.

      Corrected, and thank you!

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